Leaving Sara
I’m tearing up right now as I write this. I have only a handful of hours before I leave Washington, and I hate it! I know I’ll see Sara and these adorable grandchildren again in a few months, but it still breaks my heart to say good-bye. When I’m here with them, I’m home. That’s such a wonderful feeling—but it makes leaving bittersweet.
We did a lot while I was here. We went to Seth’s soccer game, we read books, we cooked meals, and Sidney and I finished a pair of pajamas. Tonight we went out to dinner—an adventure with five children ranging in age from one to tween! Then I kissed them and gave them all long hugs before tucking them into bed. And that’s only what I did with the kids!
Sara and I did even more. We made a list when I first got here of all the projects we wanted to complete. While we haven’t done them all, we’ve made a decent dent in the list, and I have a reason to come back soon because she simply can’t finish these things without me! (Or so I tell myself. . . .)
We also enjoyed a delicious Texas sheet cake—Sara’s specialty! I told the kids that if they weren’t good at the restaurant, there wouldn’t be any left when they got up in the morning—it’s that good!
Even more than the projects and cake, though, are the late-night chats, the heart-to-heart moments, the laughing and bonding that mean so much. I can never get enough of family, and this trip has been so wonderful! Often when I see Sara and her family, I’m racing through on business and grab a quick, overnight stay. This trip has been a little longer—not nearly long enough, of course—but longer than normal. It’s been very relaxing and enjoyable.
And to make matters even better, the weather has been perfect. Oh, my goodness! When I travel to Washington, I expect to be chilled, and I pack accordingly. But I didn’t need my sweaters and jackets and long sleeves this trip. Clear, sunny, and warm every single day!
I just couldn’t have asked for anything more—except for time to move a little slower perhaps.
But now we’re popping in a movie and settling down for our last late night—and at least six pieces of Texas sheet cake. I don’t know how mothers do it who don’t see their children for months and months, even years. I know it happens, but I’m so grateful it doesn’t happen to us!
Reader Comments (35)
Take some time to take care of yourself as you are so busy taking care of others constantly. And if you need a quiet place to hide away for a couple days, my house is always open!
Mercedes
I'm emailing you from Canada and decided I might share with you my thoughts when I saw you and your granddaughter in your "jammies" as we like to call it up here.... I found myself reflecting on my daughter (she's 4) and I when we get in our jammies and settle down to " get cozy" as she (Madeleine) likes to call it.
I have to say there is something quite nurturing and loving about bedtime routine and my favorite time of the day in this roller coaster of life. I guess no matter if she's 4 or 30 (it'll be the late night chats then instead of bath and storytime) it'll still be a quiet, nurturing quality time between a mother and her child. I'm sure you'd agree.
Sherri Lonar
I have to ask this, do all of Sara's children have s names? I had the honor of meeting her when she first moved this way, but I don't know that we talked much about kids. That is expect to admire the cute little one she had with her that day.
I just love to read your blog. when I got home from Palm Cove I wanted to do a blog.
The last two days I have put my blog together.
Emily and Krystal have just stated school hoildays over here. Emily is 13 and I spent the other night with her as her mum my daughter louise was going to a wedding. Emily cook tea for us then we watch movies this time together is specia.I have a great photo of you and me on my blog hope you get time to have a look. I have to go as I can talk all day to you.Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful storie with us
Happy Stamping Teresa Brown (Warragul Aus)
My daughter Nancy (age 22 ) is moveing tomorrow to Arizona.Her Dad and I live in Michigan.We are a very close family and we are going to miss her! Do you have any tips or words from experience to help us keep the closeness we've allways shared?
If you can't get back to me dont fret the Lord will take care of me!
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