A Shorter Shopping List

We’re doing something this year that’s liberating—we’re giving our children and grandchildren money instead of actual gifts.

Now, I’ve never wanted to be that kind of person—the person who just gives an “impersonal” gift of money or a gift card. But when we asked the children for a list of the things they wanted or needed (we don’t give them everything they ask for, of course, but we like to have options), the lists were long and varied—and expensive!

One of the girls suggested money so that they—and the grandchildren, who are getting old enough to want gifts that cost a little more too—could put it toward purchasing a pricier present. Initially, I rejected the idea, but then we thought about it. I remembered as a young girl, one of my grandmothers always gave us a little cash, and I looked forward to it every year because I could go shopping and buy something myself.

With that memory in mind, we decided to try it this year and see how it goes. I don’t know why I’ve always thought money was such an impersonal gift, but I must admit that I’m sure enjoying the fact that my shopping list is a lot shorter! Since we’ve given ourselves permission to go this route, I’ve been able to relax a little bit more and enjoy the days leading up to Christmas. I hope you’re enjoying your holiday preparations too!

Comments

[Caroline LeBel, Toronto]

I think it's lovely! My children were gifted with money from one of their grandparents this year at Christmas, and the way their eyes bugged out with excitement made us all laugh :)

Happy New Year -- I'll miss you in Phoenix this year but can't wait to hear the news....