Life with RA
Monday, January 30, 2017 at 05:06PM 
From the time Sterling and I returned home from our mission, our plan was to attend at least one event in all the markets and then maybe go on another mission or attend OnStage Local events—just be flexible. As we all know, plans don’t always go our way!
I mentioned in a recent post that my RA (rheumatoid arthritis) has been acting up lately. Well, to be completely honest, my flare started in September and has progressively gotten worse. To keep things short and simple, I’ll just say that I’ve felt worse than I’ve ever felt, and the discomfort (recently turned pain) has almost made me want to go on the prescribed RA drugs; but because it doesn’t feel right to me (and maybe because I’m a little stubborn!), I’ve made it my almost-full-time job to research everything possible and work with anyone who may be able to help me return to full health.
Because of that, Sterling and I decided that instead of planning and preparing for OnStage Live and not feeling well enough at the last minute, it would be best to plan on not traveling extensively for the next few months. Obviously, if things turn around, we’ll get on a plane and go to an OnStage event somewhere in the world. But either way, you’re in good hands!
I want you to know I’m feeling encouraged and hopeful and am trying to patiently trust in God’s timing. I haven’t said much because I don’t like to complain, and this is probably more information than you wanted to know, but I’ve always been pretty open about personal things. And even though I have felt certain my health would improve any day, this is my current reality.
In the meantime, I’ve been told I’m an eternal optimist, so I’m going to continue to expect improved health every single day! As always, thank you for your thoughts and prayers.
Reader Comments (132)
Thank you for sharing your struggles with others, as this helps in the healing process and allows other to come along side and pray for you. I have lived with RA for 30 years and have tried many "natural remedies" some good some not so good. In the end, the medication was needed to bridge the pain and prevent further destruction of my joints. I pray you will find a rheumatologist who has an open mind and is willing to work with you on this journey. I pray God will give you strength each day.
My heart goes out to you. I totally understand arthritis pain. I was diagnosed with osteoarthritis in my right knee two years ago. Some days the pain was so unbearable that I would cry, but I did my research and found out that hyalgan injections would help. A year and half later the pain is not as bad and I've made healthier eating options. I wanted to tell you about turmeric. I use it while cooking and I also drink it in tea. I have listed a link below with other information. I will continue to pray for you. May the Lord touch you with his healing hands.
http://www.healwithfood.org/rheumatoidarthritis/turmeric-tea-good-for-arthritis-pain.php
Yogi Joint Comfort Tea - Amazon
I am so sorry to hear this, and you are in my prayers!
My sister also has RA, so I am familiar with the symptoms and how it has affected our life (and our family!)
It is the strangest of diseases, where some days you can feel on top of the world and some days you can't even get out of bed!
I am praying for wisdom for you in choosing the best path to go down to get the help you need.
Extra hugs and thanks for sharing. I love that about you!
~Lorri Heiling
I still have classes at my home and enjoy cooking and crafting. I can understand all too well how difficult it is to plan big outings and vacations when you never know when your body is going to say NO.
I hope your RA can stay under control and you are able to do all the things that make you the most happy in your life.
But do not leave your optimism! And be sure to take the medication. Be healthy!
Shelli, sending prayers and hugs in the hope that you find relief and that your flare subsides - and that you can have your life back to what it was.
I'm thinking of you and praying for you. My sister was diagnosed with RA about 30 years ago and the drugs are very tough. I'm glad you have been able to manage without them for a while. I am currently being "evaluated" and do not look forward to the journey, but with role models like you, my sister and all the wonderful people here who have responded, the journey is a little bit easier.
Keep that wonder positive attitude and God Bless!
I so admire your tenacity to be the best "you" that you can be! Since being diagnosed with Fibromyalgia (a cousin to RA), we share many of the same symptoms. I wholeheartedly agree that it is wise to do your own research. I stand with you in the belief that things can be better, and medications are not always the best answer. I like to look at things from a holistic approach. There are certainly some triggers to flare ups; some of them we can control, and some of them we can't. I most certainly will offer prayers for your journey on the path to fuller health. I'm excited for you, and I believe in you! Take gentle care...