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Nov232015

Wake Up Call

Sterling found himself a little weak and wobbly in his lower left leg when he woke up on Saturday morning. I asked him if it could have been a stroke (the Spirit’s first nudge to me that I ignored), and he told me he thought he’d just slept wrong and that it would go away during the day.

We went about our preparation day as usual, doing laundry and cleaning, with Sterling standing on a chair to clean our sliding glass door and climbing the stairs to our favorite little café for lunch. Sterling then drove us to Equine 808, where we donate time on Saturday afternoons, and he trimmed horses’ hooves. I haltered and gathered to minimize his walking. Then we vacuumed the car, had it washed, and stopped by Walmart. By this time, Sterling was getting tired and was happy to lean on the cart while I raced around the store.

On our way home, I insisted he stay in the car and take a nap while I ran into the store and grabbed some groceries. We hurried to shower and get ready for stake conference, and while we were sitting and waiting for the meeting to start, I decided to do a little research online. (This time I listened to the prompting).)

The first paragraph I read alarmed me, and I knew right away that I should have gotten online earlier in the morning. Sterling started to read with me, and everything described was exactly what happened. It was a great meeting, but I have to admit, we were both a little distracted, researching different kinds of strokes and nearby hospitals.

Shortly after the meeting, we headed to the hospital emergency room where we didn’t wait at all, and the staff was efficient and friendly. At first, the staff wasn’t sure what to think because Sterling’s symptoms were so subtle, but after a CT scan and an MRI, it was determined that he had definitely had a stroke. Today he’s getting an echocardiogram, and we hope to go home.

We don’t know all the details of the stroke and the plan moving forward because we haven’t seen the neurologist yet, but after physical therapy yesterday, the therapist discovered that Sterling had also lost a little mobility in his left hand, but overall he’s doing very well and should recover fully.

It was an emotional Sabbath day, FaceTiming our family and counting our blessings. The doctors and nurses tell us this is a wake up call. Well, we’re definitely awake…and feeling extremely blessed!

We wish all of you, our dear family and friends, a happy and blessed Thanksgiving!

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Reader Comments (87)

Please take care of yourselves...does it take a 2' X 4' to the head for you to,pay attention? I can't believe you continued with all those activities! I bet I sound like your kids...
November 24, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterBillie Moan
My prayers are with Sterling for a complete recovery and for you because the spouse always needs prayers as they support their loved one.
November 24, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterD Sparks
Thinking of you both and hoping that Sterling makes a full and fast recovery. X
November 24, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterElizabeth Shannon
Oh my goodness! Praying for you both and that Sterling recovers fully! 《HUGS》
November 24, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterCarol Hickman
Prayers and Healing to Sterling! So glad it wasn't worse and that you will be more aware going forward.
November 24, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterKay Kalthoff
Sending lots of prayers, thoughts and hugs to you both. I pray all is okay xxx
November 24, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterMarlene Robins
Thinking of you Sterling and Shelli .x
November 24, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterJuliana
Shelli and Sterling, I am thankful that everything is looking good. I know how scary a small/slight stroke can be. Our family had a scare a couple months ago when my Dad had a small/slight stroke, very scary stuff. I am sure it will be like my Dads and Sterling will be fine.
November 24, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterTina Floe
Thinking of you Sterling and please do as your wife says and rest! And hope to see you back 100% very soon!
November 25, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterMichelle Last
Mark and I will be praying for you both Shelli. Much love and best wishes for a relaxing Thanksgiving. xoxo
November 25, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterRobin Merriman
Sorry about mashing Sterlings name. Marrigje sends her love. Best wishes from us both.
November 25, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterRuurd
Our thoughts & prayers go out to both of you - what a scary thing strokes can be but with God on your side you can rest assured that He is there watching over you both.
Happy Thanksgiving!
November 25, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterJanet Higerd
May God wrap his healing arms around Sterling & provide both of you with faith & patience during recovery.

If any physical or occupational therapy is offered, please take advantage of that. (just a tip from having a father-in-law that had mild strokes).

KM
November 25, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterKaren M
So sorry to hear about sterling! We'll keep you both in our prayers.
November 25, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterKathy pitt
positive thoughts heading your way - kia kaha from Whakatane, New Zealand
November 25, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterAndreaNZ
Sending prayers, blessings and much love.
November 25, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterPamela Whitehead
Saying prayers for Sterling's full recovery.
Have a Happy Thanksgiving!
November 26, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterTaresa
Thinking of you both. Xxx
November 26, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterJenny moors
So sorry to hear about Sterling's health scare. It must have been a very frightening time. It's good to hear he should fully recover. I believe with the faith and determine you both have, it will happen!
November 27, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterCarol
Sending prayers to both and Sterling a speedy recovery. Those wake calls are a bit frightening. I know that you will listen recover nicely. Blessing to All
November 27, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterNidia
Glad you were smart and headed to hospital. Pray all goes well.
November 27, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterMaxine
My thoughts & prayers to Sterling and all your family! Wishing you a speedy recovery!
November 27, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterMarilyn Wagner
Prayers for a full recovery, Sterling.
November 27, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterMary Knabe
Prayers and hugs to you both! What a scary wake up call for you. Thanks to our great Lord and wonderful care givers to help us through! Grateful to you for sharing so we can offer up prayers of healing and protection over you.
November 28, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterDenise Waddell
Get well wishes for Sterling! So glad it wasn't worse!
November 28, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterLisa S

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